We bloom and drink, and wait.

In Wisconsin my daughter Pearl has been tending a large house and garden for about eight years. She’s much more artistic and organized than I, about all of the design and execution of beautiful spaces indoors and out. She does all the work herself, even to the point of laying bricks to create a quiet and somewhat hidden corner to sit in, with morning sun and afternoon shade. It’s a wonderful spot winter or summer, and I enjoyed it with Pearl on one of my visits. This time, she had little time for sitting, what with being the wedding planner for Maggie. While she was bustling about, on my first morning after arriving late at night, I made the rounds to see all the flowers that are still blooming everywhere.

Her hydrangeas are gigantic — and I saw others in the area that are just as impressive. Along the side of her driveway, and in big pots, a multitude of plants all grow thickly and complement each other;  she doesn’t know the names of them all. She showed Izzy and me this Blackberry Lily, iris domestica, displaying its seeds something different!

At the airbnb where some of the wedding party stayed, closer to the venue, I sat on a wide porch where giant trees shaded the lawn and tire swing. Pearl’s house has similar ones, though maybe not as tall, that charm me at any time of year.

One day Roger and Izzy, Lora, Pearl and I went to a nature preserve in the middle of wide fields that are being restored to wildness from agricultural land. The asters provided the brightest splashes of color in the midst of the various drying grasses and seed heads, and bees were all over the several species of them.

Most of the Gray-headed Coneflowers (Ratibida pinnata) had faded to simply gray heads, but this one was still going strong:

Hairy White Oldfield Aster

The temperature had dropped some, rain was coming in. Everything was delicious.

Common Comfrey

Wild carrot seed heads, here and above.

That encounter with native plants of Wisconsin pretty much filled my Nature cup. When I came home, just as at Pearl’s, this first morning I wandered around and around again to see how my own garden had fared in my absence. In spite of all the unfinished projects waiting for me, I felt warmly welcomed. It’s been a little rainy, and cloudy. For some reason my furnace is not turning on, so I gave in and just opened the door to the coolness, and put on a flannel shirt.

I guess the Japanese anemones heard me saying that I plan to move them to a different spot, and they are putting on a display five times bigger than ever in their ten years of life. I’ll have to reconsider… If nothing else, I will at least wait until they finish blooming before I move them. Other things blooming now are bulbine….

The salvia is producing more blooms since I rather tardily trimmed the old ones.

And always, always, the pomegranate bushes are blooming, from spring until frost! Rosemary is flowering right now, too.

I’m finding it quieting to my spirit to be among the plants as they adjust to the changes of fall. I thought the urgency and too-muchness I was feeling leading up to my time away would be waiting for me when I got home, but it seems not.

This humble native succulent is quietly waiting, not demanding more than a few drops of water from time to time. It appreciates a little shade. When I bought it, there was a sign nearby saying it was not ready for transplanting yet. So it was just the plant for me. We will be ready when we’re ready!

8 thoughts on “We bloom and drink, and wait.

  1. You might have recognised thesame bulbine flowers in my recent post about celebration – a plant I have from my middle child’s garden (he now lives in Scotland). It is lovely to know that you have it too! This is a beautifully peaceful post about nature and ‘letting go’. I always enjoy seeing some of the plants in your garden.

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  2. So many times we return from vacation or a trip saying “I must do this now, catch up on that.” We have tasks and forget to revel in the beauty of the time away. I’m glad that did not happen with you, that you returned home to peace and beauty and the time to enjoy it and reflect on your time away. And on another note, with your love for nature and the garden, it appears that you taught Pearl well, that your love has turned into hers. I love that.

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  3. Your flowers and those in your daughter’s garden are lovely. All the more because soon they will be gone. The Coleus are so gorgeous. Their blooms are insignificant, only the leaves are pretty.

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  4. I’m catching up with your posts. I thought I had pressed Publish but maybe I didn’t. So I’ll try again.
    Your flowers and those of your daughter’s are so lovely. Especially her Coleus. I find their leaves so colourful, sadly I have no luck keeping them alive.

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    1. I had a lovely coleus given to me by a gardening friend, but not for long — I think I didn’t know how to care for it. It never got a chance to become huge like those I saw this month. Besides my daughter’s, there was an even larger specimen at the wedding venue.

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  5. What is it about garden tours that is so appealing? I hope you enjoyed your trip to the Midwest – such different growing conditions than CA, but both have much to love!

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