What you put in the dough you’ll find in the cake.

So much talk about education…It’s a theme of many Internet articles that have come my way in the last couple of weeks, and I’m trying to pull them together here. If education is about the forming of a person, about what children learn and about how they are prepared for whatever we consider to be a successful life, then it’s not surprising that I see nearly every little thing in the world as related.

“What you put in the dough you’ll find in the cake,” is a proverb that speaks to me metaphorically of the growth of a person. A real cake is also affected by things you don’t consciously add to the mix, such as the temperature at which it’s baked, and the moisture of the air, and whether you can prevent someone from opening the oven door at the wrong moment. Human beings are much more complicated than cakes, and only God knows everything about us and what influences and ingredients through the years are making us who we are. Even so, He has given us a lot of wisdom and common sense about how to nurture our young and facilitate healthy growth.

One part of our education is what we learn in school. Though only a smaller fraction of that part is formed by the curriculum and the teachers’ efforts, it’s usually what people mean when they talk about the subject. Lately it’s the Common Core goals of our nation’s Department of Education that are in the news. Janet wrote on the subject and how the goals might be contrasted with some words from Wendell Berry on what education is.

One of her concerns stems from the fact that private businessmen are supplying a lot of funding and ideas to the program. She writes, “The fact that millionaires, rather than respected educators, are developing the educational plan for the next generation feeds my cynical belief that it’s all about creating good consumers, dependent on a host of intermediaries between themselves and everything they want.”

(That cake-baking metaphor could apply to a blog post, and in case you haven’t noticed, this one is turning into a sort of lumpy Dump Cake, and you’re not halfway through. If you’ve already had enough of my unique concoction, I invite you to eat the rest later, or skip it entirely. I don’t want you to get sick.)

Another article I ran across treats the Orwellian tendencies of the Dept. of Education, which wants to create a huge database using statistics about our children and their test scores and jobs from birth on into the future. This discussion may seem tangential — but don’t you think that children learn something a bit skewed about what it means to be a person, when their privacy is diminished and their labors and accomplishments are reduced to measurable facts that will fit on charts and graphs in the service of The State?

And that’s just one questionable ingredient in the cake I am envisioning. So many things our children learn may as well be molecules in the air they breathe, they are so unconsciously incorporated into their philosophical selves. Since most children spend much of their time at school, many of these unhealthy ingredients first enter the dough during those hours, as ideas, assumptions, or practices. Everything that goes in contributes to what they come to think of — or to live — as normal.

The perspective of this man (who has very good sense considering his youth) on relationships, specifically how “the fullness of another person’s identity is a secret between them and God,” fits in here. That’s a truth that The State does not take into consideration or encourage anyone to explore personally. But what sort of education would leave out God? It’s from Him we get wisdom and understanding.

If your children must go to a public school, and you believe that God is real, then you better explain to them that every school day they are going into enemy territory; isn’t it the work of our enemy the devil to make us think that we can leave God out of everything for several hours of the day and call it “neutral”? Warn them that much of the “food” that will be offered them during the school day is poison. Or if at all possible, follow the example of the writer of my next linked article.

Amanda writes at A Chime of Hearts about education, but she doesn’t use the word much. In this particular post she tells about the learning she and her brother did in their loving home, learning which to some people might sound a bit haphazard or incomplete, but which consisted of a spiritually and academically rich lifestyle. This education formed an understanding of the world that Amanda now passes on to her own family and even to the blogging world. She has a wisdom beyond her years and I’m personally thankful to her parents for providing the atmosphere and nurturing that contributed to it.

What got me started on this whole topic was Anna (also a former homeschooler and an excellent example of what can happen when God gives a child to a pair of loving and thinking parents), who recommended this article by Meghan Cox Gurdon in Hillsdale College’s Imprimus. It is a revisiting of the topic over which Gurdon drew sharp criticism and Twitter-flooding in 2011, with her article “Darkness Too Visible.”

Gurdon introduces this recent piece: “…my article discussed the increasingly dark current that runs through books classified as YA, for Young Adult — books aimed at readers between 12 and 18 years of age — a subset that has, in the four decades since Young Adult became a distinct category in fiction, become increasingly lurid, grotesque, profane, sexual, and ugly.”

For specifics, and for the many specific reasons this kind of reading material is hurting our children, please read the article. The sort of books she writes about I’d like to gather by the dozens off the library shelves and throw into a big bonfire! They seem always to be paperbacks, and would make a good hot blaze.

May the Lord have mercy on our young people — they are under attack by forces that would like to cripple their souls, turning what might be sweet cakes into bitter. I have to keep reminding myself (mixing metaphors) that God can restore what locusts eat (Joel Ch. 2), but it’s painful to watch the destruction.

Children learn other untruths about the world in many of the movies made just for them, as another of Anna’s links points out, this one to an article in The Atlantic. Such as: 1) Just believe in yourself and you can accomplish anything — no limits.  2) Your parents are too old and dull to realize this so it’s o.k. to defy their authority, and 3) You have a right to skip over the lower rungs of the ladder of success (and the people who are toiling there) and go quickly to the top, because you were made for greatness.

I’m not disappointed that I’ve missed all of the film examples of what is called the “magic-feather” syndrome: “Examples from the past decade abound: a fat panda hopes to become a Kung Fu master (Kung Fu Panda); a sewer-dwelling rat dreams of becoming a French chef (Ratatouille); an 8-bit villain yearns to be a video-game hero (Wreck-It Ralph); an unscary monster pursues a career as a top-notch scarer (Monsters University). In the past month alone, two films with identical, paint-by-numbers plots–Turbo and Planes–have been released by separate studios, underlining the extent to which the magic-feather syndrome has infiltrated children’s entertainment.”

I’m more familiar with Charlie Brown, whom the same Atlantic writer Luke Epplin points out is a fictional character more likely to keep us in touch with the real world. I’ve so often heard, “It’s only a story!” or “It’s just a movie, for heaven’s sake.” Yes, for Heaven’s sake, realize that the vicarious experience we get from books and movies is a very potent type of experience.

In just the last month I’ve heard many stories from teachers and administrators around the nation, of the mixed-up lessons being taught to students by the school policies that stem from something other than a good educational philosophy. I’m not smart enough to articulate all the lessons that I intuit are being learned. They are not always acknowledged as part of the curriculum to be taught, and sometimes the “lesson plans” can only be extrapolated from a kind of Doublespeak. Certain behaviors and attitudes may be subtly or clearly encouraged or discouraged, and too often the treatment of the student is insulting or disrespectful of him as a person made in the image of God.

For example, today I heard from the administrator of a nearby high school that the school is legally responsible for any criminal behavior of the student not only while the student is on campus, but also after school until he arrives home. Theoretically, because “it’s all about liability,” if at a non-school dance on Saturday night a student gets in a fight, and the altercation can be construed to have begun at school the day before, the school can be held responsible for any damages. A truth that is fundamental to any education, that each person is responsible for his own behavior, is being turned on its head.

I have more than one blogger to thank for a link to this article pointing out that in schools even reading is actually discouraged, no matter what the posters and slogans might lead you to believe. Why should that surprise me? Reading is a wonderfully private encounter with whole worlds that you can explore — and yes, where you can have life-changing experiences.

The word privacy comes up as part of the debate about what our children experience in the restrooms at school, and we have a new law in California about that. The bigger question I ask is, what are they learning about life and God in this strange world where it is widely believed that your sex is only a matter of your feelings about yourself at a given moment in time, a kind of consumer’s choice that each of us autonomously determines? In the past everyone knew who was a boy and who was a girl, and that there was a restroom designated for each group. If you asked a child of my era, “Why are you a girl?” (or “Are you a girl?”) she would find it nonsensical, but she might say, “I just am!” or if pressed, perhaps, “God made me a girl.”

Now, in California, a boy student need only say that he feels rather more like a girl, or a girl might express that she really, deep down, is a boy, and he/she can use whichever restroom she/he wants. That’s what they are teaching them here. (Many people don’t like it and are working on a fix.)

My last link should not be heavy or discouraging, because it’s about play. Unfortunately it’s about the deficit of play in the lives of many 21st-century children. Their hours and days are overly managed to the point where even activities that used to be play have become work. When some of us were discussing this problem I found out that at the school that one of my grandsons attends, there is a rule against running on the playground. Every day at recess the children are lined up so that this rule can be explained to them once more.

Having raised a couple of boys myself, and having eight grandsons — and being married to a boy! — I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry at this idiocy. It’s insane, and yet, it’s an inhumanity of sorts that these children have had to receive in a daily lecture and get used to, to learn and accept as normal.

Again, it must be all about liability. And they may run on the soccer field, so perhaps it isn’t as bad as it sounds? Except that it is! It’s hard enough that little boys should have to sit at desks for an hour or two at a time, but then, when they go out for recess, what do they get? It sounds like the prison yard. I’m sorry, but this last story has put me over the edge and is the cause of my cake (blog) also overrunning the pan very messily.

At least I do know that all my grandchildren have excellent parents who have always provided for plenty of play time, so in their case I don’t worry. I just fume, and grieve for the children of our society who have so much to put up with. I pasted in pictures of my children and grandchildren playing, to cheer us all up.

20 thoughts on “What you put in the dough you’ll find in the cake.

  1. What a good post…I had never really looked at those animated movies that way. Thank you for your kind words about me and my family. The cotton headed little girl painting caught my attention. She looks like the epitome of health. I wonder if educators recognize or ponder the essence of children…what they feel like, look like. And, do they ask, is what we are doing bringing the best out in our kids. Just look at the eyes of that cotton headed girl in a man's shirt. Poster child for home education…was she homeschooled?

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  2. Preach it, Sister! Education might just be the only one word oxymoron I know -grin- and the great majority of today's “educators” (I call them such because they can't teach) terrify me. They are incapable of teaching critical or constructive thinking and when children question the teachers, they are punished in a variety of snide and sneaky ways. This I hear from young folks I know who are in public schools.

    “No child left behind?” Most of them are being left behind, especially if they don't have the “right last name” or aren't smart enough to learn on their own.

    Your cake proverb is apt, unfortunately, the results of the cake will take a generation to show and by then, it's too late. In Virginia, it's SOL's – standards of learning. Students have NO idea what the Battle of Hastings was about but they know when it was fought. Big Deal – they know, essentially, nothing.

    Enemy territory indeed; if we leave our Christian homes, we are venturing into enemy territory to be in the world but not of the world. It is a battle, not a skirmish and to leave God out of the equation is to lose the battle. For some, to lose their very souls.

    I am appalled at the trash that parents allow their children to read and watch with the comment, “It's just for fun.” No, it's not for fun, it's for eternity and God holds us accountable for all.

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  3. Amen!!! You have thought about this deeply and have read about it in depth.

    I applaud your conclusions. I was shocked to read though about no running on the playground. How in the world are children to be expected to sit if they can't move about? That breaks my heart.

    I have not read as much as you have about the common core so I was very interested in your thoughts. Thank you so much for the links and the thoughts.

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  4. Thank you…this whole article is a wave of thought that goes through my mind often. Since we homeschool, I think it's important to have extracurricular activities that are organized (but are they REALLY?), we have just 1 day a week with nothing, and my girls always sing and say how much they love it. ♥ No running on the playground, like the rule of “no splashing” at the pool! Ridiculous. The simple old-fashioned way of life, without worrying about liability, barefoot in nature provokes more interesting learning, in my opinion, but I find myself conforming to society.

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  5. Thank you for this. I've been wrestling with the whole issue of education–particularly, that of boys–and have had a long entry waiting for me to press “Publish,” but I've felt too bashful about it. Best quote from last week, when we were visiting a local elementary school: two teachers yelling at two boys. The crime? “Boys, who are your teachers? … We are going to tell them that we caught you RUNNING and PLAYING!!!!” Like. REALLY?!?? And desks for my six-year-old? I hate it. There is so much to this issue… thank you for taking it on.

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  6. I'll need to go back and read some of those links. Gretchen, bless you, even when you rant, you are careful, articulate, and kind. There is so much educational craziness out there. I will say, I think the changes in education have been gradual, perhaps picking up speed in the past 20 years. But it's been changing for a while. I do wish the administrative decisions made would be in the interest of the child, instead of the interest of liability, or policies, or such things. Many thanks for the hard work you put into this post. I agree with you so much. Care and involvement on the part of parents can do much to allay the troubles in the system, but in the end, the child is in the school without them.

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  7. Excellent article, Gretchen Joanna! As a former home educator myself, I have a special place in my heart for HS moms and kids. Now that home schooling has become a more common thing, parents are bombarded with SO MUCH, from endless curriculum choices to co-ops and organized everything. I so agree with you that our children today are missing out on natural play and time to think their own thoughts without someone or some gadget always telling them what to do or what to think.

    I just heard a news story today about football, baseball and soccer balls being dumped from recess at schools, and also no running! What? All of these decisions for “safety.” How did we ever survive playing on our own without helmets & knee pads and rules, rules, rules? I look forward to reading the articles you cited here. Thank you. And thank you for the pictures. They did my heart good!


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  8. P.S.

    I think the educational system as we know it has become too big and too complicated. What ever happened to locally run schools — without federal or state influence ($$)? Remember when an 8th grade education was enough?

    One other thought…. Children are natural learners, always seeking to understand: why? how? where? when?. Do we ever get to the end of a 5 year old's questions? Sometimes I think we squelch learning by boxing it up neat and tidy. Kids are people too.

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  9. I believe the “cotton-headed girl” is me, and as you can see I have a wonderful mother! This is a great blog post, and points out so many of the depressing trends in our society…which is becoming so overly structured, ineffective, miserable. But here are a few other points of hope: in our public high school, there is a conservative health teacher who makes it clear that the curriculum she has to read is not general opinion. There are Christian wrestling coaches who are teaching boys to be real men. In our public elementary school children had writing posted in the halls of what Christmas meant to them — and so, so many mentioned Jesus' birth. The way the rules, regulations, etc. are handled by the adults on the scene can make a big difference. Maybe not enough, but some difference.

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  10. Wonderful post Gretchen Joanna! My older daughter teaches middle school Algebra and tells me of all the challenges in modern education. Children are being coddled and the line between right and wrong is blurred. We are raising a generation where mediocrity is the norm. I fear especially for our boys, who are not allowed to be boys. I live in Alabama, which is a conservative state and too often mocked for our values. Thank you for tackling such an important subject.

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  11. Hah! I found a post I had not ever seen before and then, looking at the date I see why. So while I am a Johnny-come-late to the party, it is a subject which endures and two more years have proven further the import of what you have shared.

    I have a great and old dump cake recipe and rather like it. I think this post is not at all like a big dump cake, but rather like the small loaves one makes when baking for many, many people you want to bless. Each little cake is tied up in cello wrap and sprigs and ribbons of presentation are evident in the thought and feeling. What a gift, to yearn over the children of others and encourage the next generation of parents.

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      1. I, for one, have never seen KFP as just any old “magic feather trope” story. Maybe you haven’t watched it, but I don’t remember Po, the “kung fu panda” achieving his dreams and success just by special privilege of some sort. He, too, works hard to get where he ends up, as much as anyone else. There’s nothing in the movie to indicate and/or say that he could’ve gotten there without hard work, because he couldn’t have.


      2. I’m glad to hear that. I was quoting from The Atlantic, and haven’t seen that particular movie. Thanks for reading and joining the discussion, Sarah. You’ve prompted me to revisit the topic, and think about it some more, from my current vantage point.


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