Garden tour with figs.

I’ve been thinking a lot about Mrs. J lately. She has been involved in my life in so many ways for over 30 years now, from the time when we became neighbors in the neighborhood where neither of us lives any longer. I hadn’t seen her since my husband’s funeral, and was glad when she phoned today.


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oaks and olives

Mrs. J has always loved plants, and soon after we met she was taking horticulture classes and learning the botanical names for everything. When we planted a rock garden at our old house she helped us choose the plants, including at least two that I want to plant in my new back yard garden, a Mugo Pine and a Pineapple Guava. Many plants that I love remind me of this friend.

Mrs. J became a realtor and helped us sell that old house and buy this one. She advised us to plant the Sweet Olive bush that has been a joy to me and which I am now nursing back to health from drought. She was the first person I knew to use manzanita bushes in a residential landscape, planting sixteen of them in her front yard across the street.

Usually we see each other once a year for the triple-birthday celebration we have with another friend; the three of us lived on the same street for a couple of years, back when our babies were coming along regularly. We all love gardening and we discovered that we all were born within a four-day period in the same year. We started taking turns preparing birthday lunches for each other, and have celebrated 30 of them so far.

Today is Labor Day, a special day that we never have celebrated together. Mrs. J was surprised to find herself without pressing obligations on this holiday, so she phoned me. I also was without pressing obligations, and as we began to talk about my back yard project we came up with the idea that I might travel the half hour to her place to get a garden tour. I soon was off on a country drive.

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The sort of grouping we both like.

That route made me very nostalgic and weepy. Our family has been driving these roads for 42 years now, and much of our history took place at one end or the other of this winding hilly road through oaks and golden hills, which Mr. Glad also drove back and forth to work for 20+ years.

fig with zinnias

The pictures above are of the stretch of road a mile or two from our old house, where our family would take walks or bike rides. Back then there was no yellow line down the middle; that line seems to me to pretend that the road is always wide enough for two cars.

Over the years Mrs. J has designed landscapes and houses in several places. Currently she lives by a creek and has space and resources to use many of the ideas she’s been collecting her life long.  When we went out her front door we soon found ourselves by her beautiful fig tree that had several fruits ready to eat right then. We ate and they were sweet and juicy. Did I tell you I am going to have a fig tree in my garden?



Dogwoods are a species I don’t plan to have, but Mrs. J loves them and has varieties from all over. They get enough shade from the tall oaks by the creek. This might be the Korean one.



She went up north to Corning, CA and bought an olive tree that is 100 years old. It had been pruned a few months earlier to prepare it for transplanting; now it has been given a spot where it can leaf out and enjoy its new and more temperate home.


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Olive trees don’t need as much water as you might think. Mrs. J had to remove some ornamentals from under another olive tree because the irrigation of them was too much for the tree. In another place, where an emitter is leaking, she cleverly made use of the extra water to plant a clump of horsetail grass.


The creek has never been so low, she said; I was surprised that it still had any water at all. In a few months this stream could turn into a torrent. That is our hope and prayer.


10 thoughts on “Garden tour with figs.

  1. Wonderful pictures! I also am a fan of that type grouping. Would you believe there is horsetail grass thriving in several places along the trail of this spring fed area? I’d never seen that plant in the wild! Thanks for sharing these sweet days!

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  2. I can imagine getting weepy. We still pray for you and send love, love, love. I am so glad you were able to visit such a dear friend. What a blessing and what a beautiful garden and landscape your friend has! I hope for water for you all too.

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  3. So glad you got to enjoy a day with Mrs. J! I have fig trees, but two winters ago I pruned them back severely, and they haven’t produced fruit since. I’m hoping next year they will. Oh, how wonderful to be able to grow an olive tree!


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  4. Lovely to see the natural world in your neck of the woods…….(Of course, it isn’t what I would call “woods”. But so beautiful.) That is a Korean dogwood. I have one in my garden, too. And a Cornus mas, or Cornelian cherry which is edible but I have never eaten it myself. It would need to be made into jelly which I should not be eating, in any case.

    This sounds like a wonderful visit/journey. I was going to write that “nature always heals” and realized at once that this is not at all true. Sometimes nature is busy with hurricanes, Tornadoes, forest fires and Tsunamis…….. But being out in nature most often heals. It pulls us into the real world.

    Be well!

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  5. I have so enjoyed this garden tour. Beautiful. I am intrigued by the horsetail grass. We have it growing wild in wet areas all around the ranch. I have always liked it but never thought about trying to put it in the yard.

    What a wonderful relationship you and Mrs. J have. Such a long-time friend is a gift.

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  6. What a neat friend to have and to share your love of gardening. Ron grows Manzanita, He babies his because we are too hot. How neat that she grows them. When I was a kid living here we had two great old fig trees. I grew up eating them like crazy. They were over 100 years old but then they just died. I always miss them this time of year.

    How nice to have a olive. I have a small one that I love very much. I love that drive. I think it would be such a nice place to live. Not to mention a creek that still has water.

    Oh, I stopped by to read today’s post and got side tracked. I am kind of loopy lately. I think it’s this heat. Or that is what I am thinking. Fall will soon be here.

    I am so glad you had a nice day.

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