Months overthrown by a calendar.

Redbud on my walk.

This is the season when every day’s wandering in the garden reveals sprouts and blossoms that startle me: Can this lithodora already be filled out, and I didn’t notice it happening? When did the coral bells get as high as my nose?

At church the scents of wisteria and other blossoms are heavy in the air, and when I walk to and from my car I have to slow down and focus on breathing as I make my way.

Maybe all of this botanical activity wouldn’t be as surprising if I’d been more attentive to the garden, but I’ve been restraining myself from going to the nursery or planting anything new just yet; the next month or so involves a lot of traveling, when I won’t be able to tend to anything. The reason for travel is, two of my grandsons will marry this spring, and one granddaughter. But in between the May weddings I hope to put a few zucchini seeds in the planter boxes where they will get automatic irrigation.

Wisteria at church.

The plant just above, I can’t remember the name of. [Mrs. Bread already looked in here and reminded me that it is Tasmanian Flax, Dianella tasmanica.] This one is at church, but Mrs. Bread gave me a specimen last year and I’ve planted it here; mine isn’t blooming yet. They eventually have berries that look like elongated dark purple grapes.

I bought one more wall calendar to help me do better at keeping track of where I am in time. I love having calendars and clocks all over the house. It’s from Beauty First Films and claims to promote “the overthrow of months.” I ordered it late, so we are already into Lent, which is revealed by this calendar to transcend the months, and to infuse the everyday chronos of life, emphasizing the gifts of the Church that lead to kairos. This year’s version also features the churches of Serbia:

Lithodora with Salvia behind.
Smallage

Many years ago Mrs. Bread and I split a six-pack of smallage plants. Then I re-landscaped and let mine go. She gave me a sprout from hers a year ago and it is Not Small At All now. I like having smallage around because it’s nice to put in soups, but I don’t really want to give a quarter of the planter box to it. Unfortunately, I think the boxes are the only place it would get the amount of watering it likes.

Swiss chard, on the other hand, I can’t have too much of. I procrastinated picking this crop for a couple of months, during which time a couple of snails fattened themselves on it. There was still plenty left for me, and I finally took off every last beautiful leaf from a dozen plants and cooked it all up. Most of it went into the pot to make my favorite lenten Garlicky Chard with Cannellinis. I’m showing the Italian Silver Rib Swiss Chard, but I actually harvested about twice as much Rhubarb Chard.

April may have rushed in to my life, but now that it’s here I’m pleasantly surprised that we’re only half way through the month. We Orthodox are more than half way to Pascha, which is also surprising. I can tell I was made for kairos, because I never can get used to this chronos life!

Fresh news just before publishing: My dear friend and brother in Christ, “Mr. Greenjeans,” who started me working in the church garden and taught me tons about plant and plant names; who for many years and several times a month made all the huge bowls of dough for our church prosphora bread; who got me literally up to speed chanting the Hours in church; who became an even closer friend since 2020 when he and his wife began hosting small tea-and-talk sessions at their house — That Friend no longer has to struggle in this chronos world, but has fallen asleep in death, has gone to his rest, to await the Resurrection. Memory Eternal!

Louise Bourgeois, Woman and Clock

12 thoughts on “Months overthrown by a calendar.

  1. Ah, I had forgotten your endearing blog-nickname for N. May he rest in peace and be ever remembered.

    The plant that makes the purple balloons is Tasmanian flax.

    I grow smallage in a pot on the deck…and there is one that started itself behind some strawberry plants…it may need moving.

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  2. I’m sorry for your loss of a friend and gardening inspiration.

    I have not heard of smallage and must look it up.

    Your Lithodora is beautiful. I have tried several times to grow some but it doesn’t do well at all. I may try one last time this year

    Finally….how exciting to have 3 grandchildren getting married this Spring 💗

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  3. May he Rest in Peace. My wisteria, is blooming up a storm, without a single leaf. I don’t understand this. I think the plants are in shock from all our rain following years of drought. Your garden is beautiful.

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  4. What a lovely farewell to Mr. Greenjeans. But I am sorry for your loss. But I’m glad you have three exciting weddings to anticipate in the next month! (However did they figure out their schedules! How will you figure out yours?!) Your calendar — and your plants — are all lovely!

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  5. Calendars and clocks: such a part of your life, and so (mostly) not a part of mine! I haven’t had a paper calendar in decades, and consult the calendars on my computer or phone mostly to answer questions like “When will Memorial Day be this year?” As for clocks, I can think of only three apart from phone and computer: the microwave, the car, and my beloved Grandmother clock that my dad built. I have it set to Westminster chimes, and once a week have to pull up the weights and fine tune the hands — much like the woman in your last illustration!

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    1. That’s blessedly low-tech, Linda. The sun and seasons are all the signifiers your internal “clock” needs!

      I read that the first clock was invented for a monastery to help the monks pray more regularly. A far cry from where we are now.

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